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    January 14

    阿红的婚礼(三)

       来到新郎家,长辈给新娘系上围裙,应该是做个贤妻的象征吧。然后在新娘前面洒清水去邪。到了新屋,新娘要脱鞋。长辈在新娘前放一个盛有筷子的圆竹筐,我想是早生贵子,代代相传的意思吧。新娘踩在上面。接着又放另一个,新娘踩上去,之前踩的那个要从新娘头顶上移到前面。这样一步步走入新房。新娘和新郎双双坐在床上。我看见了床上摆着早上的大红皮箱,还有一个装着有铜钱芯的点燃着油灯的竹篮。有一个装有梳子,木尺,剪刀等东西的盒子。还有装着红包的男女拖鞋,新棉被自然也少不了的。最引人注目的就是在甘蔗上系上金桔,还用手电桶照着,想必是代表甜甜蜜蜜。而且梳妆台上一定要放两束花。真的有好多讲究。新娘阿红还把她手上的玫瑰交给我,说是要我多拿会,沾些喜气,可以早日成为新娘。我还真信了,拿起了玫瑰舍不得放下。接着新娘又换上传统的嫁衣,并象征性的提两桶水到厨房。这些都是做一个贤妻的标准。
       在新郎家的喜宴上,宾客满堂,还得分两次上席。不只是新郎新娘,他们的父母一样忙得不亦乐乎。伴娘小江不时地走过来在我面前叫累,我还真同情她。吃完喜宴就到了众弟兄为难新娘新郎的时间了。其实比较简单,总共三个节目。第一个是交杯酒。第二个就是新郎用嘴咬着杯子喂新娘可乐。第三个就是新娘新郎,伴娘伴郎4个人列长龙,绕场“开火车”,学火车叫。由于新娘新郎总是不积极响应,所以有点冷场,失去了不少热心观众。所以众兄弟姐妹也就不敢再继续,早早就出去找其它节目了。而我和小江做为姐妹还有一件重要的事情要做。就是陪新娘“回娘家”。当然不是真正回,也只是象征性的。新娘洗了手后,提着个竹蓝在我们两个姐妹的陪同下,坐车出了新郎家的范围,象征性的下车又上车再回到新屋。这样,今天的习俗就到此为止了。但据说明天还有几次喜宴,我想她们还有的累啊。
       感觉这些婚俗确实有趣,但又太累太复杂。新娘今天也是大呼小叫,因为太多事要让她操心了。结次婚这么累人,难怪有很多现代人都准备改变传统结婚习俗,比如说不摆喜宴,或者旅游结婚等等。据阿红说她们村里的婚俗因为太复杂,所以已缩减了很多习俗。我想随着时代的不断进步和人们观念的不断转变,这些婚俗会越来越简化。在若干年后,也许我们就见不到这些婚俗了,它也将随着新娘屋成为历史。于是做此篇,以做留念。
     

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    Picture of Anonymous
    fish wrote:
    写得很详细很精彩啊,good.
    Feb. 24
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    标本盒里的蝴蝶 wrote:
    飞过~~
    Jan. 15

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